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"I think I deserve more" is not a sentence you can say out loud.
Seven questions that turn a vague feeling into a specific ask: what exactly you want, the evidence behind it, who actually decides, when to raise it, and what you'll do if the answer is no.
All 7 questions
Nothing is hidden behind the chat. Zara asks these one at a time, in her own words, and reacts to what you say. You can skip any question, pause, or stop whenever you want.
- 1.What exactly are you asking for — a raise, a promotion, a title, or a boundary?
- 2.What are your three strongest pieces of evidence?
- 3.What is your number, or your line? ("More" is not an ask — pick a figure or a limit.)
- 4.What do you think you're worth, versus what you plan to ask for — and why do those differ?
- 5.Who actually decides, and what do they care about?
- 6.What will you say if the answer is no, or "not right now"?
- 7.When are you putting it in the calendar?
What you get at the end
Zara ends with a word-for-word script you can say or send, plus your line for a no — factoring in UAE realities like salary bands, sponsorship and end-of-service, and pointing to MOHRE rather than quoting law.
Who is Zara?
Zara is Fempower's free AI coach for women living in the UAE. She knows the local context — Emirates ID and Ejari paperwork, school timelines, the reality of rebuilding a career after a move — and she is not a therapist, doctor or legal adviser, and will say so rather than improvise. More about Zara.
These are Fempower's own questions, inspired by the themes in Harnidh Kaur's The Girls Are Not Fine — the performance of being fine, unrecognised emotional labour, and the cost of ambition. Nothing is quoted from the book.