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"I think I deserve more" is not a sentence you can say out loud.
Seven questions that turn a vague feeling into a specific ask: what exactly you want, the evidence behind it, who actually decides, when to raise it, and what you'll do if the answer is no.
Three of the 7 questions
- What are you asking for, in one sentence, with a number in it?
- Who actually signs off on this — and have you ever spoken to them?
- What is your answer if they say "not right now"?
Zara asks them one at a time, reacts to what you say, and ends with a short summary of the pattern and one concrete next step. You can skip any question, pause, or stop whenever you want.
Who is Zara?
Zara is Fempower's free AI coach for women living in the UAE. She knows the local context — Emirates ID and Ejari paperwork, school timelines, the reality of rebuilding a career after a move — and she is not a therapist, doctor or legal adviser, and will say so rather than improvise. More about Zara.
These are Fempower's own questions, inspired by the themes in Harnidh Kaur's The Girls Are Not Fine — the performance of being fine, unrecognised emotional labour, and the cost of ambition. Nothing is quoted from the book.